"You hear stories like that of Canadians trying to get in, but when you go back home, you don't expect that"
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The line hinges on “you hear stories,” a phrase that puts suffering at a distance. Stories are what other places have; they’re mediated, almost optional. Then she drops “Canadians trying to get in,” a detail that flips North American self-mythology. Canada is cast as the stable backdrop, the country you don’t flee. By choosing Canadians as the surprising protagonists, she exposes how much our empathy is calibrated by expectation: we notice crisis most when it violates the brand.
The most telling turn is “when you go back home, you don’t expect that.” Home isn’t just geography here; it’s a guarantee, a place where the worst outcomes are presumed not to apply. The vagueness of “that” matters. It’s a placeholder for the whole menu of border humiliations: fear, paperwork, suspicion, the feeling of being misread by a system. Leaving it unnamed mirrors how people talk around trauma, and how nations talk around their own failures.
As an actress, Dhavernas isn’t issuing policy; she’s registering a cultural mood: the shock of realizing the security narrative can break, and that “elsewhere” can suddenly be “here.”
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Dhavernas, Caroline. (2026, January 17). You hear stories like that of Canadians trying to get in, but when you go back home, you don't expect that. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-hear-stories-like-that-of-canadians-trying-to-41141/
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Dhavernas, Caroline. "You hear stories like that of Canadians trying to get in, but when you go back home, you don't expect that." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-hear-stories-like-that-of-canadians-trying-to-41141/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You hear stories like that of Canadians trying to get in, but when you go back home, you don't expect that." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-hear-stories-like-that-of-canadians-trying-to-41141/. Accessed 3 Mar. 2026.


