"You just have to forgive them for being men"
About this Quote
The sting is in the final three words: "for being men". Locklear isn't pointing at one guy's specific mistake; she's gesturing at a pattern that gets socially excused as nature. It's half-joke, half-warning: if you buy the premise that men will be men, you're also buying the idea that the consequences will be absorbed elsewhere. The line plays like a wink, but the wink comes with a receipt.
Contextually, it fits an era of celebrity talk-show candor and magazine-era soundbites where actresses were expected to package hard truths as charm. Locklear, long associated with glossy TV archetypes of desirability and romantic chaos, leverages that persona to smuggle in something sharper: a critique of how heterosexual dynamics often normalize male inconsideration as baseline and rebrand women's patience as wisdom.
The subtext isn't "hate men". It's darker and more familiar: adjust your expectations, because society already has.
Quote Details
| Topic | Forgiveness |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Locklear, Heather. (2026, January 16). You just have to forgive them for being men. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-just-have-to-forgive-them-for-being-men-135597/
Chicago Style
Locklear, Heather. "You just have to forgive them for being men." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-just-have-to-forgive-them-for-being-men-135597/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You just have to forgive them for being men." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-just-have-to-forgive-them-for-being-men-135597/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.











