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Parenting & Family Quote by Marie Osmond

"You just need to be honest with how you're feeling. But, a lot of women are afraid of it because they think, 'Oh, they are going to take my baby away. They're gonna call me incompetent. I'm going to lose my job. I've got to be tough, it's a man's world.'"

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Honesty is framed here as both the obvious remedy and the most socially expensive option. Marie Osmond isn’t delivering a self-help platitude; she’s mapping the punitive math many women do before they admit they’re struggling. The opening line sounds simple, even soothing, but the quote quickly reveals why “just” is doing so much work: truth-telling becomes a risk assessment in a culture that still treats female vulnerability as negligence.

The litany of fears escalates like a private panic spiral: baby taken, incompetence stamped, job lost. Each consequence hits a different institution with power over women’s lives - family courts, medical systems, employers - and the point isn’t that these outcomes always happen, but that they feel plausible enough to silence people. That plausibility is the real antagonist. It’s a portrait of how stigma works: not through one dramatic act of cruelty, but through the everyday expectation that women must perform competence at all times or be punished for it.

Then comes the bitter tagline, “it’s a man’s world,” less a slogan than a diagnosis. She’s capturing how “toughness” becomes compulsory, not empowering - a costume worn to keep access to safety, work, and respect. Coming from a pop figure whose career has unfolded under intense public scrutiny, the subtext sharpens: if visibility increases the penalties for imperfection, then celebrity isn’t insulation; it’s a pressure cooker. The quote asks for empathy, but it also demands structural honesty about what women are protecting themselves from when they stay quiet.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Osmond, Marie. (2026, January 16). You just need to be honest with how you're feeling. But, a lot of women are afraid of it because they think, 'Oh, they are going to take my baby away. They're gonna call me incompetent. I'm going to lose my job. I've got to be tough, it's a man's world.'. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-just-need-to-be-honest-with-how-youre-feeling-99493/

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Osmond, Marie. "You just need to be honest with how you're feeling. But, a lot of women are afraid of it because they think, 'Oh, they are going to take my baby away. They're gonna call me incompetent. I'm going to lose my job. I've got to be tough, it's a man's world.'." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-just-need-to-be-honest-with-how-youre-feeling-99493/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You just need to be honest with how you're feeling. But, a lot of women are afraid of it because they think, 'Oh, they are going to take my baby away. They're gonna call me incompetent. I'm going to lose my job. I've got to be tough, it's a man's world.'." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-just-need-to-be-honest-with-how-youre-feeling-99493/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Marie Osmond (born October 13, 1959) is a Musician from USA.

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