"You know, I have guys that are almost stalkers... it is very strange. I had this one guy that e-mailed me off my site, and thought we were boyfriend and girlfriend. He then came to my house in London, I do not know how he found it"
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The phrase “almost stalkers” is doing protective work. It softens the accusation, as if she’s aware that naming it too plainly invites skepticism or blame: Did you lead him on? Did you post too much? In one breath she’s asserting the reality (“came to my house”) and pre-emptively negotiating the cultural reflex to treat harassment as the cost of being visible.
There’s also a quiet indictment of the era’s parasocial economy. The man “thought we were boyfriend and girlfriend” isn’t just delusional; he’s acting out a script encouraged by celebrity culture itself, where access is marketed as authenticity and boundaries are framed as coldness. Bourret’s final clause - “I do not know how he found it” - lands like a door left unlocked by someone else. The real fear isn’t only the man at the gate; it’s the porousness of privacy, and how easily “public” becomes “available.”
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| Topic | Fear |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bourret, Caprice. (2026, January 15). You know, I have guys that are almost stalkers... it is very strange. I had this one guy that e-mailed me off my site, and thought we were boyfriend and girlfriend. He then came to my house in London, I do not know how he found it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-i-have-guys-that-are-almost-stalkers-it-139904/
Chicago Style
Bourret, Caprice. "You know, I have guys that are almost stalkers... it is very strange. I had this one guy that e-mailed me off my site, and thought we were boyfriend and girlfriend. He then came to my house in London, I do not know how he found it." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-i-have-guys-that-are-almost-stalkers-it-139904/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You know, I have guys that are almost stalkers... it is very strange. I had this one guy that e-mailed me off my site, and thought we were boyfriend and girlfriend. He then came to my house in London, I do not know how he found it." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-i-have-guys-that-are-almost-stalkers-it-139904/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.





