"You know, I think that allowing somebody, one mere person to believe that he or she is like, the vessel you know, like the font and the essence and the source of all divine, creative, unknowable, eternal mystery is just a smidge too much responsibility to put on one fragile, human psyche. It's like asking somebody to swallow the sun"
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The intent is protective, almost interventionist: stop outsourcing the divine to a lover. By stacking “font,” “essence,” “source” alongside “divine, creative, unknowable, eternal mystery,” she mimics the escalating rhetoric of romantic worship. It’s deliberately over-the-top because that’s what modern coupling often demands: that one person be partner, muse, therapist, best friend, co-parent, spiritual portal, and proof you’re lovable. Gilbert’s “smidge” is a razor blade of understatement, a comic deflation that exposes the cruelty hiding inside sentimentality.
The subtext is also about art. As a novelist, she’s pointing at the way we treat inspiration and validation like they should arrive through one chosen human conduit. If that person falters - gets tired, depressed, distracted, ordinary - the whole sacred system collapses, and we call it “falling out of love” instead of “asking for the impossible.”
“Asking somebody to swallow the sun” lands because it’s not abstract; it’s bodily. Love-as-cosmos becomes love-as-choking hazard. The metaphor makes the demand feel not romantic but violent: you don’t just disappoint under that pressure, you combust. Gilbert isn’t lowering the stakes of intimacy; she’s insisting we stop confusing intimacy with annihilation.
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Gilbert, Elizabeth. (2026, January 17). You know, I think that allowing somebody, one mere person to believe that he or she is like, the vessel you know, like the font and the essence and the source of all divine, creative, unknowable, eternal mystery is just a smidge too much responsibility to put on one fragile, human psyche. It's like asking somebody to swallow the sun. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-i-think-that-allowing-somebody-one-mere-65780/
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Gilbert, Elizabeth. "You know, I think that allowing somebody, one mere person to believe that he or she is like, the vessel you know, like the font and the essence and the source of all divine, creative, unknowable, eternal mystery is just a smidge too much responsibility to put on one fragile, human psyche. It's like asking somebody to swallow the sun." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-i-think-that-allowing-somebody-one-mere-65780/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You know, I think that allowing somebody, one mere person to believe that he or she is like, the vessel you know, like the font and the essence and the source of all divine, creative, unknowable, eternal mystery is just a smidge too much responsibility to put on one fragile, human psyche. It's like asking somebody to swallow the sun." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-i-think-that-allowing-somebody-one-mere-65780/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.













