"You know, I'm not really any good at working out when people are flirting with me. And I think I'm too flirtatious with people I'm trying not to flirt with! What I am good at is making people feel uncomfortable. I don't want to, but it always ends up happening!"
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The subtext is about agency. Flirtation, in his telling, isn’t a deliberate tactic but an ambient side effect of existing in public with a certain face and a certain cultural history. Hartnett came up in an era when young male actors were packaged as glossy objects and then punished for acting like human beings. By locating the problem in awkwardness rather than ego, he’s quietly refusing the script that says attention is always wanted and always manageable.
The kicker is the pivot to discomfort: “What I am good at is making people feel uncomfortable.” It’s self-deprecating, but it also names an anxiety anyone recognizes: the fear that your vibe is landing wrong, that your politeness reads as invitation, that your boundaries read as arrogance. He’s not bragging about being desired; he’s describing the exhausting ambiguity of social interaction when your baseline is already over-interpreted.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hartnett, Josh. (2026, February 16). You know, I'm not really any good at working out when people are flirting with me. And I think I'm too flirtatious with people I'm trying not to flirt with! What I am good at is making people feel uncomfortable. I don't want to, but it always ends up happening! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-im-not-really-any-good-at-working-out-158778/
Chicago Style
Hartnett, Josh. "You know, I'm not really any good at working out when people are flirting with me. And I think I'm too flirtatious with people I'm trying not to flirt with! What I am good at is making people feel uncomfortable. I don't want to, but it always ends up happening!" FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-im-not-really-any-good-at-working-out-158778/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You know, I'm not really any good at working out when people are flirting with me. And I think I'm too flirtatious with people I'm trying not to flirt with! What I am good at is making people feel uncomfortable. I don't want to, but it always ends up happening!" FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-im-not-really-any-good-at-working-out-158778/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.


