"You know, it's a different world now, but to skip ahead and really answer your question, only in the last five years did I find what I call holy maturity, finding the balance, finding the right person in my life so that I could live a normal life"
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The phrase “to skip ahead” reads like an actor’s instinct to cut past exposition and get to the emotional beat. He’s answering an interviewer, but he’s also answering the decades-long fan question underneath: what happened after the costume came off? “Only in the last five years” is the startling admission. It suggests that success, visibility, and even time don’t automatically produce stability; they can delay it. Ward frames the breakthrough not as career triumph but as “holy maturity,” borrowing a quasi-spiritual vocabulary to give weight to an internal shift that fame rarely rewards.
“Finding the balance” and “finding the right person” are deliberately ordinary goals, and that’s the point. After a life lived as a symbol of pop-camp heroism, “a normal life” becomes the radical aspiration. The subtext is both gratitude and fatigue: gratitude for survival and love, fatigue with the chaos that often trails childlike celebrity. In a culture obsessed with reinvention, Ward’s version is almost countercultural - not becoming bigger, but becoming steadier.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ward, Burt. (2026, January 17). You know, it's a different world now, but to skip ahead and really answer your question, only in the last five years did I find what I call holy maturity, finding the balance, finding the right person in my life so that I could live a normal life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-its-a-different-world-now-but-to-skip-37835/
Chicago Style
Ward, Burt. "You know, it's a different world now, but to skip ahead and really answer your question, only in the last five years did I find what I call holy maturity, finding the balance, finding the right person in my life so that I could live a normal life." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-its-a-different-world-now-but-to-skip-37835/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You know, it's a different world now, but to skip ahead and really answer your question, only in the last five years did I find what I call holy maturity, finding the balance, finding the right person in my life so that I could live a normal life." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-its-a-different-world-now-but-to-skip-37835/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.



