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Love & Passion Quote by Omar Khayyam

"You know, my friends, with what a brave carouse I made a Second Marriage in my house; favored old barren reason from my bed, and took the daughter of the vine to spouse"

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A "Second Marriage" sounds dutiful until Khayyam reveals the bride: wine. The line is a sly little coup against piety and reputation, staging intoxication as a public, almost ceremonial act. He throws a "brave carouse" not as private weakness but as a deliberate, performative choice, the kind that dares the listener to clutch their pearls. The joke lands because it borrows the language of social order - marriage, house, friends - and uses it to legitimate what moralists condemn. He doesn t sneak the bottle in; he walks it down the aisle.

The subtext is sharper than mere hedonism. "Favored old barren reason from my bed" frames rational restraint as sterile: respectable, longstanding, and unproductive. Reason becomes an aging spouse who can no longer give him anything vital. The "daughter of the vine" is youth, fertility, and possibility - a sensual antidote to a life spent trying to outthink mortality. Khayyam s speaker isn t arguing that reason is useless; he s mocking the fantasy that reason can satisfy the deepest hungers it diagnoses.

Context matters: the Rubaiyat tradition thrives on this tension between theological certainty and the messy appetites of lived time. In a medieval Persian world where faith and philosophy both claimed authority, Khayyam weaponizes conviviality as dissent. Wine here is less a beverage than a method: a way to puncture metaphysical arrogance, to insist that if life is brief and the cosmos indifferent, then pleasure is not sin so much as honesty.

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TopicWine
SourceThe Rubáiyát of Omar Khayyám, translated by Edward FitzGerald (first pub. 1859). Quatrain commonly rendered: “You know, my friends, with what a brave carouse…”.
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Khayyam, Omar. (2026, January 16). You know, my friends, with what a brave carouse I made a Second Marriage in my house; favored old barren reason from my bed, and took the daughter of the vine to spouse. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-my-friends-with-what-a-brave-carouse-i-120916/

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Khayyam, Omar. "You know, my friends, with what a brave carouse I made a Second Marriage in my house; favored old barren reason from my bed, and took the daughter of the vine to spouse." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-my-friends-with-what-a-brave-carouse-i-120916/.

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"You know, my friends, with what a brave carouse I made a Second Marriage in my house; favored old barren reason from my bed, and took the daughter of the vine to spouse." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-my-friends-with-what-a-brave-carouse-i-120916/. Accessed 23 Feb. 2026.

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Omar Khayyam

Omar Khayyam (May 15, 1048 - December 4, 1131) was a Poet from Persia.

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