"You know, Quincy Jones was a great mentor, but he was a man in a man's world. Fortunately he's a very sensitive man and a beautiful human being, and even though he was 14 or 15 years older than me, he's a capable human being and has great communication skills"
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The repetition of "man" works like a drum hit. It’s not poetic; it’s blunt, almost weary, and that bluntness is the point. Gore isn’t surprised by sexism, she’s reporting it as weather. Against that backdrop, "sensitive" and "beautiful human being" read as more than compliments. They’re credentials. In a world where men controlled budgets, studios, and access, the rare male ally wasn’t merely talented; he had to be emotionally literate enough to listen to a young woman artist and take her seriously.
The age detail - "14 or 15 years older than me" - adds another layer of asymmetry: not just gendered power, but generational authority. Gore’s careful phrasing ("capable human being", "communication skills") sounds almost like a performance review, which is telling. She’s validating his professionalism because professionalism is what protects women from being dismissed as "difficult" or "emotional". The subtext is clear: mentorship in pop wasn’t simply guidance; it was shelter, negotiated through respect and language.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Gore, Lesley. (n.d.). You know, Quincy Jones was a great mentor, but he was a man in a man's world. Fortunately he's a very sensitive man and a beautiful human being, and even though he was 14 or 15 years older than me, he's a capable human being and has great communication skills. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-quincy-jones-was-a-great-mentor-but-he-149405/
Chicago Style
Gore, Lesley. "You know, Quincy Jones was a great mentor, but he was a man in a man's world. Fortunately he's a very sensitive man and a beautiful human being, and even though he was 14 or 15 years older than me, he's a capable human being and has great communication skills." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-quincy-jones-was-a-great-mentor-but-he-149405/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You know, Quincy Jones was a great mentor, but he was a man in a man's world. Fortunately he's a very sensitive man and a beautiful human being, and even though he was 14 or 15 years older than me, he's a capable human being and has great communication skills." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-quincy-jones-was-a-great-mentor-but-he-149405/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.



