"You know that saying, bad things don't happen to good people? That's a lie"
About this Quote
The intent isn’t nihilism; it’s refusal. Amos has spent a career writing from the aftermath of violation, betrayal, and public pieties that protect the powerful. This line targets the fairness myth at the heart of so much everyday spirituality and self-help: if you are good, you will be spared; if you suffer, you must have failed some moral test. It’s a worldview that doesn’t just misread reality, it polices victims. If bad things happen only to the bad, then anyone harmed becomes suspect.
What makes the quote work is its bluntness as an emotional tactic. Amos isn’t arguing; she’s interrupting. Calling it a "saying" emphasizes its mass-produced quality, like a slogan stamped onto grief. Labeling it "a lie" exposes the hidden function: to make other people’s pain legible, containable, and deserved.
In a culture addicted to karmic narratives, this is a necessary heresy. It doesn’t promise meaning. It makes room for the truth that goodness doesn’t grant immunity, and that compassion matters precisely because the world isn’t fair.
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| Topic | Tough Times |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Amos, Tori. (2026, January 16). You know that saying, bad things don't happen to good people? That's a lie. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-that-saying-bad-things-dont-happen-to-98374/
Chicago Style
Amos, Tori. "You know that saying, bad things don't happen to good people? That's a lie." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-that-saying-bad-things-dont-happen-to-98374/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You know that saying, bad things don't happen to good people? That's a lie." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-that-saying-bad-things-dont-happen-to-98374/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










