"You know, the interesting thing about having traveled around the country as much as I have, and I think it's sort of inadvertently what made me come out or at least begin doing things within the community and thinking more about that, was that I get to travel quite a bit"
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There is a kind of accidental candor in Gore's rambling syntax: the sentence keeps doubling back on itself the way a person does when they're telling the truth but still negotiating how much truth to tell. The "interesting thing" isn't really the travel. It's the gentle admission that movement - tours, hotels, strange cities, repeat introductions - nudged her toward a life she hadn't publicly framed yet. She doesn't present coming out as a thunderclap. She describes it like drift: "inadvertently", "at least begin", "thinking more about that". The hedges are the point. They mark an era when a famous woman could feel a private certainty and still need to speak around it.
For a musician whose early career was built on teen-pop scripts of hetero romance, the line hints at the dissonance between brand and self. Travel here functions as both cover and catalyst. On the road you're constantly in new rooms, away from hometown surveillance, nearer to pockets of queer community, and forced to confront what doesn't fit when the stage persona comes off. "Doing things within the community" lands like a quiet turning point: activism and belonging arriving not from ideology first, but from proximity and repetition.
Even the self-interruption - "or at least" - suggests a public figure learning to claim her own timeline. Gore's intent feels less like a polished retrospective than a small act of permission: identity can emerge through accumulation, through miles, through meeting your people before you're ready to name why.
For a musician whose early career was built on teen-pop scripts of hetero romance, the line hints at the dissonance between brand and self. Travel here functions as both cover and catalyst. On the road you're constantly in new rooms, away from hometown surveillance, nearer to pockets of queer community, and forced to confront what doesn't fit when the stage persona comes off. "Doing things within the community" lands like a quiet turning point: activism and belonging arriving not from ideology first, but from proximity and repetition.
Even the self-interruption - "or at least" - suggests a public figure learning to claim her own timeline. Gore's intent feels less like a polished retrospective than a small act of permission: identity can emerge through accumulation, through miles, through meeting your people before you're ready to name why.
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