"You know, we're really destroying ourselves because we're really making the motivating force of anything we do selfish"
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The repetition of “really” and “because” matters. It mimics conversational despair, as if the speaker is circling the same ugly conclusion, trying to make it land without sounding preachy. That looseness also hides a sharper claim: destruction isn’t accidental. It’s the predictable downstream effect of treating self-interest as the default motivation for politics, commerce, even creativity. Once selfishness becomes the motivating force, collective outcomes (public health, climate, trust) become externalities - costs pushed onto everyone else until the bill arrives as crisis.
Steadman’s subtext is deeply cultural: modern life trains people to brand themselves, monetize themselves, optimize themselves. The self becomes a project, then a product, then a battlefield. Coming from an artist associated with gonzo-era skepticism, the remark reads like a hangover epiphany after decades of watching hypocrisy get slicker. It’s less moral scolding than a warning about a society that confuses appetite with purpose - and then acts surprised when it eats itself.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Steadman, Ralph. (2026, January 15). You know, we're really destroying ourselves because we're really making the motivating force of anything we do selfish. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-were-really-destroying-ourselves-because-153068/
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Steadman, Ralph. "You know, we're really destroying ourselves because we're really making the motivating force of anything we do selfish." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-were-really-destroying-ourselves-because-153068/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You know, we're really destroying ourselves because we're really making the motivating force of anything we do selfish." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-were-really-destroying-ourselves-because-153068/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










