"You know what? I don't care. I'm my own guy. I'm very secure with my sexuality. I can cry anytime I want"
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The line “I’m my own guy” is doing double duty. On the surface, it’s individuality. Underneath, it’s a rejection of the team-sport pressure to perform a single approved version of straight, stoic manhood. When he adds, “I’m very secure with my sexuality,” Hull isn’t making a grand statement about identity politics; he’s naming the threat that polices male emotion in sports: the insinuation that sensitivity equals weakness, and weakness gets coded as queerness. He drags that subtext into daylight, then refuses to be governed by it.
“I can cry anytime I want” is the punchline and the thesis. It reframes tears not as a leak in the armor but as a flex: agency over one’s own emotional life. Coming from an elite athlete in a culture built on pain tolerance and bravado, the line works because it’s both vulnerable and confrontational. It doesn’t ask permission to be human; it dares you to argue with it.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hull, Brett. (2026, January 15). You know what? I don't care. I'm my own guy. I'm very secure with my sexuality. I can cry anytime I want. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-what-i-dont-care-im-my-own-guy-im-very-139043/
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Hull, Brett. "You know what? I don't care. I'm my own guy. I'm very secure with my sexuality. I can cry anytime I want." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-what-i-dont-care-im-my-own-guy-im-very-139043/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You know what? I don't care. I'm my own guy. I'm very secure with my sexuality. I can cry anytime I want." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-what-i-dont-care-im-my-own-guy-im-very-139043/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







