"You know what? It's a great conversation starter, right? You meet friends that way. Sometimes it's a good thing. And then other times, I guess, the person is just a little too... then you kind of like want to back away. It depends on the person, you know?"
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The subtext is boundary management. She frames encounters as a spectrum, not a binary: fame can lubricate connection (“You meet friends that way”), but it also invites people who treat access like entitlement. The phrase “a little too...” is doing heavy lifting. It’s a socially polite ellipsis that lets the listener fill in the uncomfortable options: invasive, intense, flirtatious, unstable. Naming it would feel accusatory; leaving it unsaid keeps her safe and keeps the tone publicly palatable.
What makes the quote work is how it performs the exact strategy it describes: approach, assess, retreat. Even “It depends on the person” shifts responsibility away from her reaction and onto the interaction itself. This isn’t a grand thesis about celebrity culture; it’s the lived micro-politics of being recognized. Lohman’s point lands because it’s emotionally legible: the whiplash of being grateful for attention while quietly scanning for the exit.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lohman, Alison. (2026, January 16). You know what? It's a great conversation starter, right? You meet friends that way. Sometimes it's a good thing. And then other times, I guess, the person is just a little too... then you kind of like want to back away. It depends on the person, you know? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-what-its-a-great-conversation-starter-114326/
Chicago Style
Lohman, Alison. "You know what? It's a great conversation starter, right? You meet friends that way. Sometimes it's a good thing. And then other times, I guess, the person is just a little too... then you kind of like want to back away. It depends on the person, you know?" FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-what-its-a-great-conversation-starter-114326/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You know what? It's a great conversation starter, right? You meet friends that way. Sometimes it's a good thing. And then other times, I guess, the person is just a little too... then you kind of like want to back away. It depends on the person, you know?" FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-what-its-a-great-conversation-starter-114326/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









