"You know, you do need mentors, but in the end, you really just need to believe in yourself"
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Then comes the pivot: “but in the end…” That phrase does a lot of work. It shrinks the mentor from savior to season, a necessary phase rather than a permanent dependency. The subtext is both empowering and cautionary: guidance helps, but it can also become a ceiling if you confuse being shaped with being owned. For a Black woman who rose through Motown’s famously controlled machine and later stepped out as a solo star, the line reads like lived experience. Mentorship in that world often arrives with choreography attached: how to sound, how to dress, how to behave, how to be “marketable.” Ross is hinting at the moment when you have to stop auditioning for permission.
The insistence on “really just need to believe in yourself” isn’t airy optimism so much as a survival tactic. Self-belief here means holding your own narrative when everyone around you has a business interest in editing it. Mentors can open paths; only you can decide which one is yours.
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"You know, you do need mentors, but in the end, you really just need to believe in yourself." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-you-do-need-mentors-but-in-the-end-you-52744/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









