"You learn to speak by speaking, to study by studying, to run by running, to work by working; in just the same way, you learn to love by loving"
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The subtext is a quiet rebuke to the romantic alibi: I can’t love until I feel it. France suggests feeling is often downstream from action. You don’t wait for fluency before you talk; you talk badly, publicly, and improve through friction. Applied to love, that’s both tender and unsettling. It implies love can be trained - through attention, patience, habitual care - and that neglect is also a practice with predictable results.
As a late-19th-century French novelist and skeptic with an eye for bourgeois self-deception, France is pushing against sentimental metaphysics. He’s also sidestepping moral grandstanding. The sentence doesn’t preach sacrifice or purity; it speaks the language of craft. Love, like work, is repetitive, sometimes unglamorous, occasionally performed before it’s fully “real.” That’s why it still lands: it offers a democratic, actionable theory of intimacy, one that flatters neither our fantasies nor our excuses.
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France, Anatole. (2026, January 17). You learn to speak by speaking, to study by studying, to run by running, to work by working; in just the same way, you learn to love by loving. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-learn-to-speak-by-speaking-to-study-by-34599/
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France, Anatole. "You learn to speak by speaking, to study by studying, to run by running, to work by working; in just the same way, you learn to love by loving." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-learn-to-speak-by-speaking-to-study-by-34599/.
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"You learn to speak by speaking, to study by studying, to run by running, to work by working; in just the same way, you learn to love by loving." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-learn-to-speak-by-speaking-to-study-by-34599/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.








