"You lose a lot of time hating people"
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That sensibility fits Anderson’s world. As a Black contralto who became an international star while being blocked by segregated venues at home, she had every reason to hate specific people and the system they upheld. The point is that she understood how much that hatred would demand from her: not just anger, but rehearsal space in the mind. In 1939, when the Daughters of the American Revolution barred her from Constitution Hall, she answered by singing on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial. The subtext of the quote is in that pivot: the refusal to let bigotry write the day’s agenda.
There’s also a performer’s calculus here. Musicians trade in focus. You can’t sustain tone, breath, and control while carrying extra psychic weight. Anderson’s sentence offers a method of survival that doesn’t pretend injustice isn’t real; it insists your interior life is still yours to manage. Hate, in her telling, is a time thief that steals the only resource you never get to earn back.
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| Topic | Forgiveness |
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Anderson, Marian. (2026, February 16). You lose a lot of time hating people. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-lose-a-lot-of-time-hating-people-119982/
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Anderson, Marian. "You lose a lot of time hating people." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-lose-a-lot-of-time-hating-people-119982/.
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"You lose a lot of time hating people." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-lose-a-lot-of-time-hating-people-119982/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.









