"You love what you do, you are cursed with it, and then you get known for being cursed with it"
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The subtext is about how devotion curdles into identity. In entertainment, your intensity becomes your brand: you’re not just good, you’re “driven,” “obsessed,” “difficult,” “method.” The industry romanticizes suffering when it can sell it. Being “cursed with it” hints at the toll - the auditions, the rejection, the emotional strip-mining, the restless need for the next role - but also at the stigma of taking it too seriously in a culture that wants art to look effortless. When Assante adds “then you get known for being cursed with it,” he’s pointing at a trap: public recognition doesn’t reward the love; it rewards the narrative of torment attached to that love.
Context matters here. Assante came up in a Hollywood ecosystem that prizes mythmaking around male intensity, where actors are profiled like weather systems: volatile, consuming, not entirely safe to be near. The line reads as both pride and warning. It’s an argument that the real cost of vocation isn’t time or comfort, it’s losing the right to be ordinary once your hunger becomes the story everyone tells about you.
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Assante, Armand. (2026, January 17). You love what you do, you are cursed with it, and then you get known for being cursed with it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-love-what-you-do-you-are-cursed-with-it-and-43492/
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Assante, Armand. "You love what you do, you are cursed with it, and then you get known for being cursed with it." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-love-what-you-do-you-are-cursed-with-it-and-43492/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You love what you do, you are cursed with it, and then you get known for being cursed with it." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-love-what-you-do-you-are-cursed-with-it-and-43492/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.





