"You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you don't trust enough"
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The sentence works because it refuses the fantasy of a “safe” stance. Crane doesn’t promise that proper caution prevents pain; he reframes the choice as a trade-off between an occasional wound and a chronic fever. “Deceived” is external, episodic, almost social. “Torment” is internal, continuous, and self-perpetuating. The moral arithmetic is clear: better to risk a few losses than to buy total protection at the price of perpetual anxiety.
Subtextually, Crane is defending community. Trust is the lubricant of relationships, congregations, commerce, even faith itself. A person who “doesn’t trust enough” doesn’t merely avoid betrayal; they preempt intimacy, interpret neutrality as threat, and outsource their peace to an ever-expanding list of precautions. That’s not prudence; it’s imprisonment.
The context matters: early 20th-century Protestant moralists like Crane wrote in an America growing more urban, mobile, and impersonal, where old certainties were loosening. The quote reads like guidance for modern life before “modern life” had its current vocabulary: if you can’t tolerate vulnerability, you’ll mistake vigilance for wisdom and call your loneliness “common sense.”
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Crane, Frank. (2026, January 17). You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you don't trust enough. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-may-be-deceived-if-you-trust-too-much-but-you-53074/
Chicago Style
Crane, Frank. "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you don't trust enough." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-may-be-deceived-if-you-trust-too-much-but-you-53074/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you don't trust enough." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-may-be-deceived-if-you-trust-too-much-but-you-53074/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.







