"You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don't try"
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Then she sharpens the blade: “doomed” if you don’t try. It’s deliberately disproportionate, a little theatrical in the way opera itself is theatrical. The word swaps a temporary feeling (disappointed) for a permanent condition (doomed). Subtext: the real catastrophe isn’t bombing an audition or getting a bad review; it’s choosing a life small enough to avoid criticism. In that framing, “trying” isn’t merely a strategy for success but a moral stance - proof that you refused to self-censor.
The quote also carries the ethos of Sills’s era and career arc. She rose in a time when classical institutions were gatekept, and women were often expected to be decorative, agreeable, and grateful. “Don’t try” can look like prudence when the system is stacked; Sills calls it what it becomes over time: surrender disguised as realism.
It works because it reframes fear. Failure is survivable. Regret is the thing that metastasizes.
Quote Details
| Topic | Motivational |
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| Source | Later attribution: Incredible Quotations (Jacqueline Sweeney, 1997) modern compilationISBN: 9780590963787 · ID: oLgraeRxjXsC
Evidence: ... You may be disappointed if you fail , but you are doomed if you don't try . " - Beverly Sills ( American opera star ) Which of the following do you believe is best : to succeed every time you try , to try and some- times fail , or to ... Other candidates (1) Peer Edited College Application Essays (Mr. Varnell) primary60.0% Song: "Peer Edited College Application Essays" by Mr. Varnell |
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"You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don't try." FixQuotes, 9 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-may-be-disappointed-if-you-fail-but-you-are-47884/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.











