"You may try but you can never imagine what it is to have a man's form of genius in you, and to suffer the slavery of being a girl"
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The verb “suffer” does heavy lifting. It’s not mere frustration; it’s a daily abrasion, a slow violence of diminishment. Calling girlhood “slavery” is intentionally incendiary, yanking the reader away from sentimental ideals of femininity. Eliot isn’t arguing that being a girl is inherently lesser; she’s indicting the institution of “being a girl” as a role enforced through limits on education, mobility, money, and credibility. The line also needles male readers: you can “try” to empathize, but you cannot fully “imagine” it because your imagination has never had to route ambition through permission.
Context sharpens the blade. Eliot wrote under a male pen name in a century that treated women’s authorship as either novelty or nuisance, and her own unconventional domestic life made her acutely aware of the price of stepping outside the script. The subtext is both confession and challenge: if genius is recognized only when it looks male, then the culture isn’t measuring talent - it’s policing who gets to be a person.
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| Topic | Equality |
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Eliot, George. (2026, January 17). You may try but you can never imagine what it is to have a man's form of genius in you, and to suffer the slavery of being a girl. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-may-try-but-you-can-never-imagine-what-it-is-28274/
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Eliot, George. "You may try but you can never imagine what it is to have a man's form of genius in you, and to suffer the slavery of being a girl." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-may-try-but-you-can-never-imagine-what-it-is-28274/.
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"You may try but you can never imagine what it is to have a man's form of genius in you, and to suffer the slavery of being a girl." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-may-try-but-you-can-never-imagine-what-it-is-28274/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.








