"You must accept that you might fail; then, if you do your best and still don't win, at least you can be satisfied that you've tried. If you don't accept failure as a possibility, you don't set high goals, you don't branch out, you don't try - you don't take the risk"
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The subtext is about control. Most people don’t avoid risk because they lack dreams; they avoid it because they want guarantees. Carter names the hidden bargain we make with ourselves: if we never reach, we never have to reckon with falling short. That’s why she links failure-denial to smaller lives: “you don’t set high goals… you don’t branch out.” It’s not motivational poster language; it’s a diagnosis of self-protection masquerading as prudence.
Context sharpens the message. Rosalynn Carter’s public life was spent in the long shadow of judgment - political scrutiny, the Carter presidency’s mixed reputation, and her own push to expand the role of First Lady into substantive policy work, especially in mental health. The quote reads like advice forged in that atmosphere: when outcomes are partly out of your hands, the only durable pride comes from effort and risk. It’s a civic ethic, too: democracies stagnate when everyone is terrified of being wrong on record.
Quote Details
| Topic | Failure |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: First Lady from Plains (Rosalynn Carter, 1984)
Evidence: You must accept that you might fail; then, if you do your best and still don't win, at least you can be satisfied that you've tried. If you don't accept failure as a possibility, you don't set high goals, you don't branch out, you don't try you don't take the risk. (Page 45). A Google Books preview for Rosalynn Carter's autobiography shows this quotation on page 45 and states that the book was first published in 1984. The preview page available online is from a 1994 University of Arkansas Press reprint, but it explicitly notes the work was first published in 1984. Based on the evidence available, the earliest verified primary-source appearance is Rosalynn Carter's own autobiography, First Lady from Plains. I did not find evidence that the quote originated earlier in a speech, interview, or article. Other candidates (1) ANALYTICAL MOTIVATIONAL AND INSIGHTFUL QUOTES FOR ACHIEVI... (FRANKLIN A. OHIOZEBAU, 2013) compilation85.6% ... You must accept that you might fail ; then , if you do your best and still don't win , at least you can be satisf... |
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Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Carter, Rosalynn. (2026, March 14). You must accept that you might fail; then, if you do your best and still don't win, at least you can be satisfied that you've tried. If you don't accept failure as a possibility, you don't set high goals, you don't branch out, you don't try - you don't take the risk. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-must-accept-that-you-might-fail-then-if-you-128394/
Chicago Style
Carter, Rosalynn. "You must accept that you might fail; then, if you do your best and still don't win, at least you can be satisfied that you've tried. If you don't accept failure as a possibility, you don't set high goals, you don't branch out, you don't try - you don't take the risk." FixQuotes. March 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-must-accept-that-you-might-fail-then-if-you-128394/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You must accept that you might fail; then, if you do your best and still don't win, at least you can be satisfied that you've tried. If you don't accept failure as a possibility, you don't set high goals, you don't branch out, you don't try - you don't take the risk." FixQuotes, 14 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-must-accept-that-you-might-fail-then-if-you-128394/. Accessed 14 Mar. 2026.













