"You needn't love your enemy, but if you refrain from telling lies about him, you are doing well enough"
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The subtext is that hostility is inevitable, but dishonesty is optional. “You needn’t” is doing heavy lifting: it grants permission to feel what you feel, even bitterness, and then draws a bright line around behavior. The enemy remains an enemy; the demand is merely that you don’t launder resentment into false accusations. That’s not idealism, it’s damage control.
Contextually, Howe’s era (late 19th to early 20th century American journalism and public life) thrived on partisan mud, personal reputations, and the kind of gossip that could stand in for argument. Read against that backdrop, the quote becomes a miniature media critique: the social cost of conflict isn’t disagreement, it’s the casual invention of “facts” to make our side righteous.
It’s also a sly rebuke to sanctimony. Truth-telling isn’t framed as nobility; it’s “well enough.” Howe’s cynicism lands because it’s practical: in a culture addicted to moral overreach, basic honesty becomes radical.
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| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
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Howe, Edward W. (2026, January 17). You needn't love your enemy, but if you refrain from telling lies about him, you are doing well enough. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-neednt-love-your-enemy-but-if-you-refrain-48217/
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Howe, Edward W. "You needn't love your enemy, but if you refrain from telling lies about him, you are doing well enough." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-neednt-love-your-enemy-but-if-you-refrain-48217/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You needn't love your enemy, but if you refrain from telling lies about him, you are doing well enough." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-neednt-love-your-enemy-but-if-you-refrain-48217/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








