"You needn't tell me that a man who doesn't love oysters and asparagus and good wines has got a soul, or a stomach either. He's simply got the instinct for being unhappy highly developed"
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The intent is less about food than about the Victorian-Edwardian obsession with respectability and self-denial. In that world, pleasure often needed alibis; Saki strips away the pretense and frames refusal as pathology. The phrase "instinct for being unhappy" is doing heavy work. It recasts misery not as tragic circumstance but as cultivated talent, a practiced reflex. That is cynical, but also psychologically sharp: some people do treat deprivation as proof of virtue, and then wonder why life feels like an unpaid internship.
Subtextually, the quote defends a certain kind of elite hedonism: taste as a moral argument. Yet its not merely class performance. It mocks the puritanical impulse that equates enjoyment with shallowness. Saki is saying that the anti-pleasure pose is its own vanity, and a tedious one. In his fiction, characters weaponize manners and menu choices to expose hypocrisies; here, the menu becomes a quick test for whether someone is equipped to live rather than merely behave.
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Munro, Hector Hugh. (2026, January 15). You needn't tell me that a man who doesn't love oysters and asparagus and good wines has got a soul, or a stomach either. He's simply got the instinct for being unhappy highly developed. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-neednt-tell-me-that-a-man-who-doesnt-love-148539/
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Munro, Hector Hugh. "You needn't tell me that a man who doesn't love oysters and asparagus and good wines has got a soul, or a stomach either. He's simply got the instinct for being unhappy highly developed." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-neednt-tell-me-that-a-man-who-doesnt-love-148539/.
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"You needn't tell me that a man who doesn't love oysters and asparagus and good wines has got a soul, or a stomach either. He's simply got the instinct for being unhappy highly developed." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-neednt-tell-me-that-a-man-who-doesnt-love-148539/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.













