"You never know what's going to happen. My mother was an English teacher. If someone had told her that I was going to write a book, she would never have believed that. So you can never say never"
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The mother detail does double duty. An English teacher is the archetype of someone who can “read” people, evaluate talent, spot promise. If even she would have missed the future author in her own son, then prediction itself looks flimsy. Dungy borrows that authority to puncture the fantasy that other people’s expectations are accurate, or that your early identity is permanent. It’s a gentle rebellion against the way communities typecast kids: the jock, the quiet one, the “not academic.” Coming from a celebrated NFL coach, it also quietly complicates the stereotype of the coach as anti-intellectual. He frames authorship not as a surprising pivot away from football, but as proof that a person can be bigger than their job title.
The phrase “you can never say never” lands like locker-room wisdom, but it’s doing real cultural work. Dungy’s career was built on discipline and systems; this is him carving out space for contingency, growth, and late-blooming ambition. It’s not a promise that anything will happen. It’s permission to stop treating the present as a verdict.
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Dungy, Tony. (2026, January 16). You never know what's going to happen. My mother was an English teacher. If someone had told her that I was going to write a book, she would never have believed that. So you can never say never. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-never-know-whats-going-to-happen-my-mother-105549/
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Dungy, Tony. "You never know what's going to happen. My mother was an English teacher. If someone had told her that I was going to write a book, she would never have believed that. So you can never say never." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-never-know-whats-going-to-happen-my-mother-105549/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You never know what's going to happen. My mother was an English teacher. If someone had told her that I was going to write a book, she would never have believed that. So you can never say never." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-never-know-whats-going-to-happen-my-mother-105549/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.
