"You protect your being when you love yourself better. That's the secret"
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The clever turn is “when you love yourself better.” Not “love yourself,” full stop, but better - as if self-regard is a skill you can refine, a standard you can raise. That word quietly rejects the binary of confidence vs. insecurity and replaces it with a craft ethic: you learn what drains you, what flatters you, what you’re willing to trade away for approval. Adjani isn’t selling narcissism; she’s describing boundary-setting that doesn’t need to announce itself.
Then comes the wink of “That’s the secret.” It’s a phrase that usually introduces an exclusive hack, but here it punctures the culture of complicated fixes. No mystical transformation, no external savior - just the unglamorous work of treating your inner life as non-negotiable. The subtext is almost combative: if you don’t price yourself correctly, others will bargain you down. In an industry and a wider culture that profit from women’s self-doubt, calling self-love “protection” is a quietly radical reframing.
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| Topic | Self-Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Adjani, Isabelle. (2026, January 15). You protect your being when you love yourself better. That's the secret. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-protect-your-being-when-you-love-yourself-146243/
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Adjani, Isabelle. "You protect your being when you love yourself better. That's the secret." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-protect-your-being-when-you-love-yourself-146243/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You protect your being when you love yourself better. That's the secret." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-protect-your-being-when-you-love-yourself-146243/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.












