"You really have to listen to yourself and know if what someone is saying is true for you"
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The phrasing is doing quiet work. “Really” signals how hard this is in practice, especially for performers trained to take direction. “Listen to yourself” reframes intuition as a discipline, not a mood. And the second clause is the steel in the sentence: “know if what someone is saying is true for you.” She doesn’t say “true” in an objective, courtroom sense; she says “true for you,” which acknowledges that advice can be accurate and still misfit. It’s a pushback against the cultural fetish for hot takes and one-size-fits-all prescriptions, a reminder that someone else’s certainty is often just a projection dressed up as insight.
In context, Light’s career has spanned sitcom fame, dramatic reinvention, and outspoken advocacy. That arc makes the quote feel less like a platitude and more like a map: if you want longevity, you can’t outsource self-knowledge to the room. The subtext is blunt: external validation is loud; your own signal is quieter, and you have to train yourself to hear it.
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| Topic | Self-Improvement |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Light, Judith. (2026, January 16). You really have to listen to yourself and know if what someone is saying is true for you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-really-have-to-listen-to-yourself-and-know-if-113756/
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Light, Judith. "You really have to listen to yourself and know if what someone is saying is true for you." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-really-have-to-listen-to-yourself-and-know-if-113756/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You really have to listen to yourself and know if what someone is saying is true for you." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-really-have-to-listen-to-yourself-and-know-if-113756/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











