"You see a person when you look in the mirror that no one sees but you. Other people see a person when they look at you, but you're not that person, either!"
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The first sentence frames the mirror as a locked room: the only audience is you, and the “person” you see there is stitched together from memory, fear, aspiration, and selective evidence. It’s intimate, but it’s also unreliable. We’re all gifted propagandists for our own case, and the mirror is where we rehearse the story.
Then he pivots: other people also see “a person” when they look at you, but that figure is equally constructed - a composite of their expectations, biases, and the small slice of you they’ve witnessed. The sting is in the last clause: “but you’re not that person, either.” It denies the comfort of choosing one identity as the true one. Private self-perception can be narcissistic. Public perception can be flattening. Both are partial.
In a business context, the quote reads like an ethics check on branding and reputation. You can’t fully control how you’re received, and you can’t trust your own self-image as a compass. The intent isn’t existential gloom; it’s practical humility: if identity is always being inferred, then character shows up less in how you describe yourself and more in what you do consistently, especially when no one is watching and when everyone is.
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Williams, Roy H. (2026, February 18). You see a person when you look in the mirror that no one sees but you. Other people see a person when they look at you, but you're not that person, either! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-see-a-person-when-you-look-in-the-mirror-that-64691/
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Williams, Roy H. "You see a person when you look in the mirror that no one sees but you. Other people see a person when they look at you, but you're not that person, either!" FixQuotes. February 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-see-a-person-when-you-look-in-the-mirror-that-64691/.
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"You see a person when you look in the mirror that no one sees but you. Other people see a person when they look at you, but you're not that person, either!" FixQuotes, 18 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-see-a-person-when-you-look-in-the-mirror-that-64691/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.






