"You see, we are here, as far as I can tell, to help each other; our brothers, our sisters, our friends, our enemies. That is to help each other and not hurt each other"
About this Quote
The pivot is the one that stings: “our enemies.” Vaughan collapses the usual moral hierarchy by insisting that decency isn’t reserved for your chosen people. In that move, the quote sidesteps the easy version of kindness (be nice to your friends) and gestures toward something tougher: restraint, empathy, and accountability even when you feel justified in cruelty. It’s a musician’s ethic, too. Bands survive on mutual care; scenes survive on mutual respect. Hurt is always communal, never contained.
Given Vaughan’s era and public arc - a performer who confronted addiction and fought his way back into clarity - the subtext reads like a survival principle. “Help” isn’t abstract charity; it’s the daily practice of not making someone else’s life harder to manage. The ending’s simplicity, “and not hurt each other,” refuses cleverness. It’s a blunt chorus line, meant to be remembered when adrenaline, ego, or grievance start writing the lyrics.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Vaughan, Stevie Ray. (2026, January 17). You see, we are here, as far as I can tell, to help each other; our brothers, our sisters, our friends, our enemies. That is to help each other and not hurt each other. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-see-we-are-here-as-far-as-i-can-tell-to-help-78438/
Chicago Style
Vaughan, Stevie Ray. "You see, we are here, as far as I can tell, to help each other; our brothers, our sisters, our friends, our enemies. That is to help each other and not hurt each other." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-see-we-are-here-as-far-as-i-can-tell-to-help-78438/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You see, we are here, as far as I can tell, to help each other; our brothers, our sisters, our friends, our enemies. That is to help each other and not hurt each other." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-see-we-are-here-as-far-as-i-can-tell-to-help-78438/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.







