"You think, eventually, that nothing can disturb you and that your nerves are impregnable. Yet, looking down at that familiar face, I realized that death is something to which we never become calloused"
About this Quote
That downward glance does a lot of work. It implies a scene the speaker would rather not narrate in detail, and it turns death from an idea into a presence. "Familiar face" hints that this isn’t just another corpse, not another case file; it’s someone within the circle that allows him to keep distance - colleague, friend, maybe an innocent caught in the crossfire. The subtext is guilt as much as grief: if you live in the machinery of violence, you start believing you can manage it. When it takes someone you recognize, the illusion of control collapses.
Ness was mythologized as a clean, relentless enforcer in a dirty era. This quote resists that legend. It’s not sentimental; it’s an admission that professionalism has limits. The intent is almost moral: to argue that staying human is not weakness, and that any system that requires callousness as a survival trait is quietly deforming the people inside it. In a culture that praises "toughness", Ness insists on the one wound you should never fully cauterize.
Quote Details
| Topic | Mortality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ness, Eliot. (2026, January 15). You think, eventually, that nothing can disturb you and that your nerves are impregnable. Yet, looking down at that familiar face, I realized that death is something to which we never become calloused. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-think-eventually-that-nothing-can-disturb-you-87006/
Chicago Style
Ness, Eliot. "You think, eventually, that nothing can disturb you and that your nerves are impregnable. Yet, looking down at that familiar face, I realized that death is something to which we never become calloused." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-think-eventually-that-nothing-can-disturb-you-87006/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You think, eventually, that nothing can disturb you and that your nerves are impregnable. Yet, looking down at that familiar face, I realized that death is something to which we never become calloused." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-think-eventually-that-nothing-can-disturb-you-87006/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.









