"You try to get out there and live. I've always had good friends who've been very supportive and help make me feel good and grounded because I've never felt attached to the film industry"
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The real subject isn’t friendship so much as perimeter control. "Good friends" functions as a boundary, a private infrastructure that keeps her from being absorbed by the film industry’s emotional economy: networking disguised as intimacy, praise that comes with strings, attention that spikes and vanishes with the box office. When she says they make her feel "good and grounded", she’s naming the industry’s opposite force: floatiness, unreality, the sense that your worth is being negotiated in real time by strangers.
And that final clause, "because I’ve never felt attached", isn’t coy detachment; it’s a declaration of authorship. Ryder came up young, became a 90s icon, and later weathered public scrutiny that taught a brutal lesson about how quickly the business disowns its own. Read in that context, the quote is less self-help than survival strategy: build a life that doesn’t collapse when the spotlight moves. The most subversive part is how ordinary it sounds. In a culture that treats fame as gravity, she’s insisting on friction.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ryder, Winona. (2026, January 16). You try to get out there and live. I've always had good friends who've been very supportive and help make me feel good and grounded because I've never felt attached to the film industry. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-try-to-get-out-there-and-live-ive-always-had-84377/
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Ryder, Winona. "You try to get out there and live. I've always had good friends who've been very supportive and help make me feel good and grounded because I've never felt attached to the film industry." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-try-to-get-out-there-and-live-ive-always-had-84377/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You try to get out there and live. I've always had good friends who've been very supportive and help make me feel good and grounded because I've never felt attached to the film industry." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-try-to-get-out-there-and-live-ive-always-had-84377/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.





