"You utter a vow or forge a signature and you may find yourself bound for life to a monastery, a woman or prison"
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As a working anthropologist, Malinowski is doing more than warning against impulsivity. He’s pointing at the machinery of social order: words and documents don’t just communicate, they make realities. In many societies he studied, speech acts, oaths, and ceremonial declarations are not expressive; they are operative. They change your status, your rights, your kinship map. The modern “signature” is the bureaucratic cousin of the sacred vow, equally magical in its effects, equally indifferent to your later regrets.
The subtext is faintly cynical about freedom. We like to imagine our lives as guided by inner authenticity, but Malinowski suggests the opposite: you can be redirected by a single socially recognized form. He also slips in a gendered assumption - “a woman” as destination, not partner - which reflects his era’s default framing of marriage as a binding contract that disciplines men as much as it defines women. The wit lands because it collapses romance, religion, and the carceral state into the same grammar: say it, sign it, and society takes you at your word.
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Malinowski, Bronislaw. (n.d.). You utter a vow or forge a signature and you may find yourself bound for life to a monastery, a woman or prison. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-utter-a-vow-or-forge-a-signature-and-you-may-122371/
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Malinowski, Bronislaw. "You utter a vow or forge a signature and you may find yourself bound for life to a monastery, a woman or prison." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-utter-a-vow-or-forge-a-signature-and-you-may-122371/.
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"You utter a vow or forge a signature and you may find yourself bound for life to a monastery, a woman or prison." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-utter-a-vow-or-forge-a-signature-and-you-may-122371/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.









