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Creativity Quote by Robert Hunter

"You who choose to lead must follow. But if you fall, you fall alone"

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Leadership gets romanticized as a front-of-the-line perk. Robert Hunter flips it into something closer to a dare: if you want to lead, you first sign up to be led. Coming from the Grateful Dead's chief lyricist, that’s not management-speak; it’s a road-tested ethic from a band built on improvisation, collective listening, and crowds that weren’t consumers so much as co-authors of the scene. You don’t “command” a jam. You track the room, the rhythm, the current already moving, and you earn permission to nudge it.

The first sentence carries the subtext of humility and discipline: leading isn’t self-expression, it’s responsiveness. You follow the song, the group, the moment, the needs you didn’t invent. It’s a quiet rebuke to the ego-driven idea of the visionary who drags everyone into the future by sheer force of personality. Hunter’s world values the opposite: attention, deference, and a willingness to be corrected by what’s happening.

Then the line turns hard: “But if you fall, you fall alone.” That’s the price tag. Community can grant authority, but it can’t absorb accountability. In a culture that loves “we’re all in this together” branding, Hunter insists on a lonely reality: the leader is where blame concentrates. The contradiction is the point. You are dependent on others to lead well, yet singularly exposed when it goes wrong. It’s both a warning and a standard: take the role only if you can carry the solitude it comes with.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hunter, Robert. (2026, January 16). You who choose to lead must follow. But if you fall, you fall alone. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-who-choose-to-lead-must-follow-but-if-you-126966/

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Hunter, Robert. "You who choose to lead must follow. But if you fall, you fall alone." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-who-choose-to-lead-must-follow-but-if-you-126966/.

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"You who choose to lead must follow. But if you fall, you fall alone." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-who-choose-to-lead-must-follow-but-if-you-126966/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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Robert Hunter (June 23, 1941 - September 23, 2019) was a Musician from USA.

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