"You will always move toward anyone who increases you and away from anyone who makes you less"
About this Quote
The subtext is transactional. "Anyone who increases you" isn't framed as a person with depth, history, or need; they're a resource. "Anyone who makes you less" becomes a threat, not a human being in a rough season. That binary is rhetorically convenient for a preacher whose brand depends on encouraging listeners to detach from skeptics, critics, or draining family dynamics - and, more pointedly, to attach to mentors, ministries, and spaces that promise "increase". It flatters the audience by implying their instincts are righteous: if you drift from certain people, it's not avoidance, it's alignment with growth.
As advice, it's slick because it repackages ambition as self-protection. As theology, it's revealing because it reframes community less as covenant and more as leverage. The line doesn't just describe movement; it justifies it, giving spiritual cover to a very modern impulse: turning relationships into outcomes.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Improvement |
|---|---|
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Murdock, Mike. (2026, January 15). You will always move toward anyone who increases you and away from anyone who makes you less. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-will-always-move-toward-anyone-who-increases-162729/
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Murdock, Mike. "You will always move toward anyone who increases you and away from anyone who makes you less." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-will-always-move-toward-anyone-who-increases-162729/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You will always move toward anyone who increases you and away from anyone who makes you less." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-will-always-move-toward-anyone-who-increases-162729/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











