"You will be as much value to others as you have been to yourself"
About this Quote
The subtext is a rebuke to two familiar Roman types: the ambitious climber who performs virtue for applause, and the decadent aristocrat who treats the self as a toy. Cicero fuses ethics and pragmatism: cultivate judgment, discipline, and learning not because it’s noble in the abstract, but because your character becomes infrastructure for everyone around you. If you can’t govern your appetites, you can’t govern a household; if you can’t govern your household, you’re unfit to shape the state. The ladder is deliberate.
Context matters. Cicero lived through the Republic’s collapse, watching institutions hollow out under ego, corruption, and strongman spectacle. Against that backdrop, “being of value to yourself” signals the classical toolkit: philosophy as training for public responsibility, not retreat. The sentence also carries a warning for the modern reader: performative altruism and constant “helping” can be a kind of evasion. You don’t become indispensable by burning out for others; you become indispensable by becoming someone others can actually depend on.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Love |
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Cicero. (2026, January 17). You will be as much value to others as you have been to yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-will-be-as-much-value-to-others-as-you-have-33335/
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Cicero. "You will be as much value to others as you have been to yourself." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-will-be-as-much-value-to-others-as-you-have-33335/.
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"You will be as much value to others as you have been to yourself." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-will-be-as-much-value-to-others-as-you-have-33335/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.







