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Wit & Attitude Quote by Gertrude Stein

"You'll be old and you never lived, and you kind of feel silly to lie down and die and to never have lived, to have been a job chaser and never have lived"

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A warning dressed as a stammer: Stein repeats "lived" the way a mind repeats a regret it can’t put down. The sentence lunges forward and doubles back, as if it’s catching its own breath. That’s the point. She’s not offering polished wisdom; she’s staging panic in real time. The dread isn’t death itself but the humiliation of arriving at it without a life that feels authored.

"Job chaser" is the knife. Stein isn’t moralizing about work; she’s skewering a particular kind of modern captivity: a life organized around résumé momentum, social permission, and the anxious need to be legible to institutions. The subtext is that chasing jobs can become a substitute for choosing a life, a way to stay busy enough to avoid the harder task of self-definition. You end up "old" not just in years but in narrowed possibility, trained into obedience, living by external metrics until your internal story goes quiet.

The bluntness of "feel silly to lie down and die" is classic Stein: deadpan, almost comic, and then suddenly cruel. She punctures the romantic framing of mortality. No grand exit, no noble suffering - just the embarrassing anticlimax of realizing you never really stepped into your own days.

Context matters: Stein wrote from a perch of deliberate nonconformity - an American expatriate in Paris, a central node in modernism, hosting salons that helped reshape art’s future. Her life was proof-of-concept for her critique. This isn’t advice from the sidelines; it’s a manifesto from someone who bet on living as an aesthetic and existential act, and who wants you to feel, in your gut, what it costs not to.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stein, Gertrude. (2026, January 18). You'll be old and you never lived, and you kind of feel silly to lie down and die and to never have lived, to have been a job chaser and never have lived. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youll-be-old-and-you-never-lived-and-you-kind-of-7360/

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Stein, Gertrude. "You'll be old and you never lived, and you kind of feel silly to lie down and die and to never have lived, to have been a job chaser and never have lived." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youll-be-old-and-you-never-lived-and-you-kind-of-7360/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You'll be old and you never lived, and you kind of feel silly to lie down and die and to never have lived, to have been a job chaser and never have lived." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youll-be-old-and-you-never-lived-and-you-kind-of-7360/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Gertrude Stein

Gertrude Stein (February 3, 1874 - July 29, 1946) was a Author from USA.

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