"You'll never get ahead of anyone as long as you try to get even with him"
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The phrasing matters. “Ahead” is forward motion, measurable progress. “Even” is a sideways shuffle, an obsession with symmetry. Holtz isn’t offering moral advice so much as a performance metric. In sports, you can’t afford to play the last play twice in your head; you need the next rep. His claim is that resentment is a kind of bad conditioning - it trains attention toward the past, and attention is the scarce resource that separates disciplined teams from talented but fragile ones.
There’s also a quiet rebuke to grievance-as-identity. Getting even promises emotional relief, a restored ego. Holtz suggests that satisfaction is an expensive drug: it costs momentum. The quote works because it treats revenge as a rival coach, calling plays inside your brain, dictating your pace, shrinking your field of vision.
In a culture that often confuses clapping back with winning, Holtz’s line lands as a blunt locker-room correction: the only real flex is moving on, not because you’re above it, but because you’re trying to beat it.
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Holtz, Lou. (2026, January 17). You'll never get ahead of anyone as long as you try to get even with him. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youll-never-get-ahead-of-anyone-as-long-as-you-29465/
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Holtz, Lou. "You'll never get ahead of anyone as long as you try to get even with him." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youll-never-get-ahead-of-anyone-as-long-as-you-29465/.
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"You'll never get ahead of anyone as long as you try to get even with him." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youll-never-get-ahead-of-anyone-as-long-as-you-29465/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.




