"Your dresses should be tight enough to show you're a woman and loose enough to show you're a lady"
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Head worked in Hollywood at the height of the studio system, designing for stars whose bodies were treated as both product and property. The quote reads like the practical wisdom of someone who knew the camera’s appetite and the censor’s limits. The Hays Code era didn’t ban sex; it managed it. A hemline, a neckline, a silhouette: these were negotiations with morality boards, gossip columns, and audience expectations. Head’s genius was packaging those negotiations as empowerment. It’s “how to look good” advice that doubles as “how to stay safe,” in a world that punished women for seeming either too available or too invisible.
The kicker is the word “lady,” a term that pretends to be about manners while functioning as a class-coded boundary. You can be a “woman” by biology; you become a “lady” by restraint. Head’s quote survives because it’s still a familiar cultural trap, delivered with such elegant efficiency it almost sounds like freedom.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Head, Edith. (2026, January 15). Your dresses should be tight enough to show you're a woman and loose enough to show you're a lady. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-dresses-should-be-tight-enough-to-show-youre-170083/
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Head, Edith. "Your dresses should be tight enough to show you're a woman and loose enough to show you're a lady." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-dresses-should-be-tight-enough-to-show-youre-170083/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Your dresses should be tight enough to show you're a woman and loose enough to show you're a lady." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-dresses-should-be-tight-enough-to-show-youre-170083/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.







