"Your friend is the man who knows all about you, and still likes you"
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Friendship, Hubbard suggests, isn’t built on curated likability; it’s built on the radical act of staying. The line lands because it frames intimacy as a test of endurance: not whether someone can admire you, but whether they can metabolize the unflattering parts - your pettiness, your bad patterns, the stories you’d rather edit out - and remain warmly in your corner. “Knows all about you” is doing heavy work here. It implies time, proximity, and a level of attention that most relationships never reach. This isn’t the casual friendliness of shared taste; it’s the sustained exposure of shared history.
The twist is the last clause: “and still likes you.” Hubbard chooses “likes,” not “loves,” and that’s the quietly cynical, modern-feeling move. Love can be duty, romance, or abstraction; “like” is elective. It’s the everyday vote, cast repeatedly, to enjoy your company. The sentence also smuggles in a standard: real friendship isn’t proved when you’re impressive, but when you’re merely yourself, stripped of performance.
Context matters. Hubbard, a self-made American writer and entrepreneur in the late 19th and early 20th century, specialized in aphorisms that fit the era’s appetite for moral clarity and practical psychology. In a culture selling self-improvement and reputations, he offers a counter-metric: the person who sees behind the sales pitch and doesn’t walk away. It’s both comforting and bracing, because it implies most people don’t qualify - and that’s precisely why the ones who do feel priceless.
The twist is the last clause: “and still likes you.” Hubbard chooses “likes,” not “loves,” and that’s the quietly cynical, modern-feeling move. Love can be duty, romance, or abstraction; “like” is elective. It’s the everyday vote, cast repeatedly, to enjoy your company. The sentence also smuggles in a standard: real friendship isn’t proved when you’re impressive, but when you’re merely yourself, stripped of performance.
Context matters. Hubbard, a self-made American writer and entrepreneur in the late 19th and early 20th century, specialized in aphorisms that fit the era’s appetite for moral clarity and practical psychology. In a culture selling self-improvement and reputations, he offers a counter-metric: the person who sees behind the sales pitch and doesn’t walk away. It’s both comforting and bracing, because it implies most people don’t qualify - and that’s precisely why the ones who do feel priceless.
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| Topic | Best Friend |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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