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"Your home is regarded as a model home, your life as a model life. But all this splendor, and you along with it... it's just as though it were built upon a shifting quagmire. A moment may come, a word can be spoken, and both you and all this splendor will collapse"

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Respectability here is treated less like an achievement than a stage set with bad scaffolding. Ibsen aims straight at the 19th-century bourgeois fantasy: the “model home” and “model life” as public proof of moral success. The phrasing is pointedly bureaucratic - “regarded,” “model” - as if the household were an exhibit judged by the neighborhood. That cool, external gaze is the point: the “splendor” isn’t really owned by the person living inside it; it’s on loan from social approval.

Then comes the image that does the real damage: a “shifting quagmire.” It’s not a crack in the wall you can plaster over; it’s ground that won’t hold. Ibsen’s intent is to show that the foundations of this polished domestic order are unstable because they’re built on denial - buried compromises, suppressed truth, financial or sexual secrets, the quiet coercions that keep appearances intact. “A moment may come, a word can be spoken” is his favorite weapon: revelation. Not catastrophe from outside, but a single utterance that changes the social interpretation of everything that came before.

The subtext is moral blackmail. If a life is propped up by reputation, then language - gossip, confession, accusation - becomes an executioner. Ibsen writes in an era when a family’s status could be annihilated by scandal, and he exploits that brittleness to critique a culture that confuses performance with virtue. The threat isn’t merely collapse; it’s exposure: the terrifying idea that “splendor” was never solidity, only consensus.

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Ibsen, Henrik. (2026, January 17). Your home is regarded as a model home, your life as a model life. But all this splendor, and you along with it... it's just as though it were built upon a shifting quagmire. A moment may come, a word can be spoken, and both you and all this splendor will collapse. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-home-is-regarded-as-a-model-home-your-life-32734/

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Ibsen, Henrik. "Your home is regarded as a model home, your life as a model life. But all this splendor, and you along with it... it's just as though it were built upon a shifting quagmire. A moment may come, a word can be spoken, and both you and all this splendor will collapse." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-home-is-regarded-as-a-model-home-your-life-32734/.

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"Your home is regarded as a model home, your life as a model life. But all this splendor, and you along with it... it's just as though it were built upon a shifting quagmire. A moment may come, a word can be spoken, and both you and all this splendor will collapse." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-home-is-regarded-as-a-model-home-your-life-32734/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.

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Henrik Ibsen

Henrik Ibsen (March 20, 1828 - May 23, 1906) was a Poet from Norway.

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