"Your life is the sum result of all the choices you make, both consciously and unconsciously. If you can control the process of choosing, you can take control of all aspects of your life. You can find the freedom that comes from being in charge of yourself"
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The subtext is classic American self-mastery rhetoric with a late-20th-century twist. By acknowledging unconscious choice, Bennett borrows a little from psychology while still keeping the conclusion safely in the realm of personal responsibility. It’s a deft move: he concedes that we’re not fully rational, then immediately reasserts that we can become rational enough to be “in charge.” That’s both empowering and politically convenient. If freedom comes from self-control, then social constraints - inequality, bad luck, structural barriers - fade into background noise.
The intent feels partly motivational, partly ideological: cultivate citizens who see their struggles as solvable through discipline, not dispute. Even the word “freedom” is doing double duty, reframed away from rights or liberation and toward internal management. It works because it offers a clean trade: master your decision-making, and you get your life back. The promise is seductive precisely because it’s bureaucratic - control the process, control the outcome.
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| Topic | Self-Discipline |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bennett, Robert Foster. (2026, January 16). Your life is the sum result of all the choices you make, both consciously and unconsciously. If you can control the process of choosing, you can take control of all aspects of your life. You can find the freedom that comes from being in charge of yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-life-is-the-sum-result-of-all-the-choices-102787/
Chicago Style
Bennett, Robert Foster. "Your life is the sum result of all the choices you make, both consciously and unconsciously. If you can control the process of choosing, you can take control of all aspects of your life. You can find the freedom that comes from being in charge of yourself." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-life-is-the-sum-result-of-all-the-choices-102787/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Your life is the sum result of all the choices you make, both consciously and unconsciously. If you can control the process of choosing, you can take control of all aspects of your life. You can find the freedom that comes from being in charge of yourself." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-life-is-the-sum-result-of-all-the-choices-102787/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.







