"Your memory is a monster; you forget - it doesn't. It simply files things away. It keeps things for you, or hides things from you - and summons them to your recall with a will of its own. You think you have a memory; but it has you!"
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The subtext is trauma without the diagnostic label. “Hides things from you” nods to repression and self-protection, but Irving won’t romanticize it as healing. What’s hidden isn’t gone; it’s archived, waiting for a trigger to “summon” it back. That verb is slyly supernatural: recall isn’t retrieval, it’s invocation. You don’t open a drawer; you wake something.
Contextually, this tracks with Irving’s recurring preoccupations: bodies marked by accident, lives reshaped by events that don’t stay in the past just because time moves on. The final line lands because it’s both witty and bleakly accurate: the modern self loves to imagine itself as an owner-operator, curating experience into identity. Irving insists the curator is also the captive. Memory isn’t your tool; it’s the thing that quietly decides when you’re allowed to be free.
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| Topic | Nostalgia |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Irving, John. (2026, January 15). Your memory is a monster; you forget - it doesn't. It simply files things away. It keeps things for you, or hides things from you - and summons them to your recall with a will of its own. You think you have a memory; but it has you! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-memory-is-a-monster-you-forget-it-doesnt-151817/
Chicago Style
Irving, John. "Your memory is a monster; you forget - it doesn't. It simply files things away. It keeps things for you, or hides things from you - and summons them to your recall with a will of its own. You think you have a memory; but it has you!" FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-memory-is-a-monster-you-forget-it-doesnt-151817/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Your memory is a monster; you forget - it doesn't. It simply files things away. It keeps things for you, or hides things from you - and summons them to your recall with a will of its own. You think you have a memory; but it has you!" FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-memory-is-a-monster-you-forget-it-doesnt-151817/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








