"Your mind can't always tell the difference between pretend and reality if you pretend too long; or if you go too deep and really believe in what you're doing"
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The key subtext is about permeability: identity isn’t a hard shell, it’s a set of habits and beliefs that can be overwritten. Sciorra’s second clause sharpens the warning. It’s not only duration (“pretend too long”) that warps the boundary, it’s depth: “go too deep” and “really believe” turns technique into self-hypnosis. For an actor, that’s both the job and the trap. Conviction is what makes a performance convincing; it’s also what can leave residue - anxiety, grief, anger - that doesn’t politely disappear when the scene ends.
Culturally, the quote resonates beyond acting because we’ve all become part-time performers: branding ourselves online, curating moods at work, practicing confidence we don’t feel yet. Sciorra’s point isn’t that pretending is bad; it’s that the mind learns from repetition. The roles we “try on” can quietly become the person who shows up when it matters, for better or worse.
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Sciorra, Annabella. (2026, January 17). Your mind can't always tell the difference between pretend and reality if you pretend too long; or if you go too deep and really believe in what you're doing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-mind-cant-always-tell-the-difference-between-38994/
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Sciorra, Annabella. "Your mind can't always tell the difference between pretend and reality if you pretend too long; or if you go too deep and really believe in what you're doing." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-mind-cant-always-tell-the-difference-between-38994/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Your mind can't always tell the difference between pretend and reality if you pretend too long; or if you go too deep and really believe in what you're doing." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-mind-cant-always-tell-the-difference-between-38994/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



