"Your own soul is nourished when you are kind; it is destroyed when you are cruel"
About this Quote
The subtext is political. A king’s cruelty can be “efficient” in the short term, even celebrated as strength, but Solomon’s warning is that the cost is internal and cumulative. “Nourished” suggests a slow, daily practice, like tending a living thing. “Destroyed” is blunt and final, the language of collapse. That asymmetry is the point: cruelty doesn’t merely weaken you; it hollows you out until the person with authority becomes unfit to wield it.
Placed in the biblical tradition associated with Solomon’s wisdom literature, the quote reads like governance advice smuggled into spiritual counsel. Wisdom isn’t cleverness; it’s character under pressure. The line also sidesteps sentimentalism. It doesn’t promise that kindness will be rewarded by others. It argues something harder: even if no one thanks you, kindness keeps you intact. Cruelty may look like control, but it’s actually surrender to the part of yourself that can’t be trusted.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Solomon, King. (2026, January 18). Your own soul is nourished when you are kind; it is destroyed when you are cruel. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-own-soul-is-nourished-when-you-are-kind-it-18714/
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Solomon, King. "Your own soul is nourished when you are kind; it is destroyed when you are cruel." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-own-soul-is-nourished-when-you-are-kind-it-18714/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Your own soul is nourished when you are kind; it is destroyed when you are cruel." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-own-soul-is-nourished-when-you-are-kind-it-18714/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.












