"Your weak point is the open, vulnerable place where you can always be hurt. Love, in all its aspects, opens the self so fully"
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The phrasing "open, vulnerable place" is tactile and bodily, less a mood than an anatomy. She suggests that pain isn’t an accident of loving badly; it’s baked into the design of loving at all. That’s the subtext: you can’t optimize the heart the way you optimize a life. If you want the connection, you accept the liability. The adverb "always" is the knife twist, rejecting the fantasy that maturity, good choices, or cynicism will eventually make you immune.
Contextually, this tracks with Winterson’s larger project as a novelist: dismantling tidy binaries between romance and independence, desire and selfhood. "Love, in all its aspects" widens the charge beyond eros - it includes devotion, attachment, obsession, tenderness, grief. The final clause, "opens the self so fully", is almost a warning disguised as awe. Love isn’t just something you feel; it’s something that reorganizes your boundaries. The cost isn’t incidental. It’s the point.
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| Topic | Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Winterson, Jeanette. (2026, January 17). Your weak point is the open, vulnerable place where you can always be hurt. Love, in all its aspects, opens the self so fully. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-weak-point-is-the-open-vulnerable-place-68760/
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Winterson, Jeanette. "Your weak point is the open, vulnerable place where you can always be hurt. Love, in all its aspects, opens the self so fully." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-weak-point-is-the-open-vulnerable-place-68760/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Your weak point is the open, vulnerable place where you can always be hurt. Love, in all its aspects, opens the self so fully." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-weak-point-is-the-open-vulnerable-place-68760/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











