"Your wealth is where your friends are"
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Money, in Plautus, is never just money; its real habitat is the social web that can be cashed in at a moment's notice. "Your wealth is where your friends are" sounds like a cozy proverb until you remember who’s saying it and where: a Roman comic playwright whose stages are crowded with hustlers, parasites, crafty slaves, and anxious fathers guarding their coin. Plautus writes in a culture where status is portable only if other people agree to carry it for you. The line flatters friendship while quietly admitting the harder truth: resources follow relationships, not virtue.
The intent is double-edged. On one level, it’s a corrective to the miser’s fantasy that wealth is something you can lock in a chest and worship in private. In Plautine comedy, isolation is a punchline, and hoarding invites humiliation. On another level, it’s a sharp piece of social realism about patronage. In the Roman Republic, "friends" (amici) often meant clients, patrons, allies, dinner-invites, and obligations disguised as affection. Your safety net wasn’t an institution; it was a network.
The subtext is almost cynical: friendship is capital, and capital is social. That’s why the sentence works so well. It compresses an entire political economy into a warm word, daring you to confuse love with leverage. Plautus, master of comic double meanings, lets the audience laugh at the characters who miss the point, while recognizing the point as their own world, uncomfortably intact.
The intent is double-edged. On one level, it’s a corrective to the miser’s fantasy that wealth is something you can lock in a chest and worship in private. In Plautine comedy, isolation is a punchline, and hoarding invites humiliation. On another level, it’s a sharp piece of social realism about patronage. In the Roman Republic, "friends" (amici) often meant clients, patrons, allies, dinner-invites, and obligations disguised as affection. Your safety net wasn’t an institution; it was a network.
The subtext is almost cynical: friendship is capital, and capital is social. That’s why the sentence works so well. It compresses an entire political economy into a warm word, daring you to confuse love with leverage. Plautus, master of comic double meanings, lets the audience laugh at the characters who miss the point, while recognizing the point as their own world, uncomfortably intact.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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