"Your women of honor, as you call em, are only chary of their reputations, not their persons; and 'Tis scandal that they would avoid, not men"
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The phrasing is clinically cruel. "Chary of their reputations, not their persons" splits virtue into two bodies: the physical self and the social self. Wycherley implies the latter is the one that matters in a world run on gossip. That pivot to "scandal" clarifies the economy: reputation is currency, and scandal is the public audit that can bankrupt a woman overnight. It's not desire that ruins her; it's visibility.
Context sharpens the indictment. Restoration comedy thrives on a post-Puritan appetite for libertinism, yet its stage is crowded with surveillance - husbands, fops, servants, and the omnipotent crowd. Women are granted agency, but only within a rigged reputational system where men enjoy transgression as sport while women must treat it as risk management. The line isn't just misogynistic swagger (though it can play that way); it's also a cynical report from inside a culture where morality has been outsourced to what people will say tomorrow.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wycherley, William. (2026, January 17). Your women of honor, as you call em, are only chary of their reputations, not their persons; and 'Tis scandal that they would avoid, not men. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-women-of-honor-as-you-call-em-are-only-chary-27654/
Chicago Style
Wycherley, William. "Your women of honor, as you call em, are only chary of their reputations, not their persons; and 'Tis scandal that they would avoid, not men." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-women-of-honor-as-you-call-em-are-only-chary-27654/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Your women of honor, as you call em, are only chary of their reputations, not their persons; and 'Tis scandal that they would avoid, not men." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/your-women-of-honor-as-you-call-em-are-only-chary-27654/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.









