"You're creating an intimacy that everybody feels, that it's their experience, not yours. I'll never introduce a song and say, now this song is about 'my' broken heart"
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The subtext is almost political. Ownership is the wrong posture for a standard, a torch song, a lyric built to be reinhabited. Jazz and the Great American Songbook thrive on shared material: everyone plays the same tune, and the individuality lives in phrasing, tempo, touch. Krall’s intimacy is communal, not confessional. She’s after a feeling that reads as true because it’s unspecific - the listener’s mind supplies the details, and that act of projection becomes the bond.
There’s also a quiet rebuke to onstage narration as emotional gatekeeping. When an artist tells you exactly what to feel and why, the song can shrink into a single anecdote. Krall’s restraint treats the audience as collaborators, not consumers of her pain. The performance becomes less about witnessing her experience and more about borrowing her voice to name your own.
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Krall, Diana. (2026, January 16). You're creating an intimacy that everybody feels, that it's their experience, not yours. I'll never introduce a song and say, now this song is about 'my' broken heart. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youre-creating-an-intimacy-that-everybody-feels-131751/
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Krall, Diana. "You're creating an intimacy that everybody feels, that it's their experience, not yours. I'll never introduce a song and say, now this song is about 'my' broken heart." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youre-creating-an-intimacy-that-everybody-feels-131751/.
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"You're creating an intimacy that everybody feels, that it's their experience, not yours. I'll never introduce a song and say, now this song is about 'my' broken heart." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youre-creating-an-intimacy-that-everybody-feels-131751/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









