"You're either too fat or too thin. You just can't win"
About this Quote
The second sentence is the dagger. "You just can't win" isn’t melodrama; it’s resignation to a system designed to keep you performing self-correction. The implied audience is both the gawkers and the self: the voice in your head that starts speaking in magazine captions, the internalized commentator that turns eating, aging, and existing into a negotiation. In that sense, the quote is less about weight than about power - who gets to be seen as acceptable, and how quickly that acceptance flips.
Context matters: Imbruglia rose in an era when female pop success came packaged with relentless body surveillance, long before "body positivity" became a market category. The line works because it’s compact enough to feel like something you’d mutter to a friend, but sharp enough to expose the cultural trapdoor: even the "right" body is only temporarily right.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Love |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Imbruglia, Natalie. (2026, January 15). You're either too fat or too thin. You just can't win. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youre-either-too-fat-or-too-thin-you-just-cant-win-169219/
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Imbruglia, Natalie. "You're either too fat or too thin. You just can't win." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youre-either-too-fat-or-too-thin-you-just-cant-win-169219/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You're either too fat or too thin. You just can't win." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youre-either-too-fat-or-too-thin-you-just-cant-win-169219/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.







