"You're going through the horror of it, you're going through the isolation of it but you're being empowered by reminding yourself that you're connected to everybody else"
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That verb matters. Connection here isn’t a comforting fact you passively receive; it’s something you have to actively reconstruct when your nervous system is telling you the opposite. Arkin smuggles in a subtle critique of the individualistic script that turns suffering into a personal failure. By insisting you’re “connected to everybody else,” he reframes pain as a shared condition, not an isolating exception, which is why it’s empowering: it breaks the spell of singularity.
As an actor’s insight, it also reads like craft advice. Performance requires radical empathy and a constant toggling between private emotion and communal meaning. In a culture that treats loneliness as either pathology or personality, Arkin offers a third option: solidarity as a mental technology. The subtext is quiet but sharp: the way out isn’t escape, it’s recognition.
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| Topic | Resilience |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Arkin, Adam. (2026, January 17). You're going through the horror of it, you're going through the isolation of it but you're being empowered by reminding yourself that you're connected to everybody else. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youre-going-through-the-horror-of-it-youre-going-37113/
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Arkin, Adam. "You're going through the horror of it, you're going through the isolation of it but you're being empowered by reminding yourself that you're connected to everybody else." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youre-going-through-the-horror-of-it-youre-going-37113/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You're going through the horror of it, you're going through the isolation of it but you're being empowered by reminding yourself that you're connected to everybody else." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youre-going-through-the-horror-of-it-youre-going-37113/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



